How can your mentality make your life beautiful

A lot of people walk this earth not being satisfied with their lives. It is true, that many people are born into harsh surroundings, poor families or born with disabilities. The problem is that usually these people do not consider this situation fair and they become deeply frustrated with life.

Let me tell you that how you perceive life depends only on you and your perspective. Let me tell you why. If you whine all the time about how hard life is, you simply create a mindset for yourself where everything is hard, you cannot achieve anything. This is not science or some study, this is simple logic. It comes from repetition. If you repeat something long enough, you will learn it. This is how humans and animals learn.

So, if you just whine, life will suck. But what if you sat back a bit and thought about life a bit different. Let me put it this way: you were born into a beautiful playground where you can test your limits and can play as much as you want. How you play is up to you. No matter what you do, no matter where you arrive, you are simply here to play.

If you view life from this angle, you will realize that life is not hard at all. You can do anything you want. If you want goals that are hard to achieve, the play will be harder, but it is still just a game.

We are here on this beautiful playground to live and play happily regardless of the circumstances we were born into. Everything is possible and the thing you can do, infinite. So just play along and enjoy life while you are here.

Making a child is selfish

This post will by highly personal. I know that this might sound depressed or harsh, but this is one way to see it.

So, making a child is selfish. Why? First of all, who the fuck do you think you are that you can make a soul prisoner in a flesh prison? Why do you think you have the right to make a child?

When you make a child, you want someone who can take your name further, thus making you immortal. You want all the things you built in life taken over by your child. That is selfish. You own nothing in life, you just have the imagination of possession. You have no right to make someone, raise him or her and put all of that miserable bullshit in your head into his or her head.

You have simply no right! And it is fucked up, because children do not want to be born! You just selfishly decide to make one or more. Why? You have no right to make a baby especially if you cannot raise it in a fashion where you do not put anything in its head, just let it learn everything from itself.

I know you cannot do that, because you are racist and you want your child to learn this or that language, this or that religion and many more BULLSHIT that you could not achieve in your miserable life.

Man are a disease on earth and we are not the salvation of Earth, but the doom of it. We should all die out to save the planet.

We are all afraid of death, but life is a prison inside a freaking meatball. Nobody should force us into this prison. This is a self-regulating prison, because you cannot live against society. Your parents make you, and then you can go and fuck yourself as you want, but of course between the limits of rules put down by other people.

Also suicide is considered a crime. FUCK YOU. Everybody owns his own life, so if I want to kill myself, it is my right to do so! Corporations are afraid that their workers will kill themselves and then they will have to work, so they make up this bullshit rule that suicide is a crime and is unethical. BULLSHIT. I have the right to kill myself, no matter what the reason is.

Life would be much easier if anyone, who had hard time playing the game of life could simply quit and go play something else. Nobody could make you afraid of death, so you would be immune to threats. Life is getting too hard? You quit by yourself. There would be no crime, because dumb-ass people would simply fall out.

Life would be much easier.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/katrina-kae/2014/06/having-kids-doesnt-give-your-life-meaning-its-just-selfish/

Wait for it, or how patience is not always how we imagine it

Patience is a great attribute to anyone who has it. Being able to wait for something or someone is a great plus, but it is hard.

In this post I would like to talk about our fate messing with our patience. People are set to pursue their goals and when it comes to getting something from life, people want it as soon as possible.

People usually can wait for things to come in their life and the universe usually gives what we want, BUT! there are times when we want something and the universe just gives it too late.

But what means being late for the universe? The universe is late when we want a kiss from someone for example, but we can do it only when we are 80 years old. It is too late. Or we want something, but until it arrives, we already managed with something else and we do not need that thing anymore. And the universe just gives it to us, but we just stand there an laugh at our fate, how fucked-up humor it has.

Most gods throw dice, but Fate plays chess, and you don’t find out til too late that he’s been playing with two queens all along. (Terry Pratchett)
Maybe our fate just messes with us and we want the wrong thing and that is why we only get it when we realize we do not need it, or we just give up and solve our problem somehow.
I find it too black of a humor from the universe to make us push our patience to new limits just to not deliver.
Bottom line is, do not wait for something too long, if it does not arrive, just go solve your problems otherwise. Or realize that the universe will give everything you want, but can be late, so do other things until what you want arrives.