The thing is that dealing with a lot of stuff draws a lot of energy. A lot of stuff means lives of others, every-day problems, big questions about existence, our vefacebook profile, opinions of others and so on.
It is very hard to manage all these things. It is tiring and makes us lose the concentration we had for reaching our goals, if we had any.
We probably mentioned earlier that is very important to first fill ourselves with energy to be able to give to others. In order to do this, we have to learn to not give a fuck.
This does not mean that we have to become heartless or some robots. This means that we have to decide what is important for us and pursue that thing above all. If we give fucks about other people and their problems, then we actually make them pursue their dreams more easily.
In order to give less fucks, we have to become less interested in some things. For example it is totally useless to concentrate on the number of our facebook friends. Also it is useless to give a fuck about our crush having dinner with someone else. These things dont bring anything, but pain.
We need to learn to smile a lot. If the dog of our neighbor died, it is not our concern. Of course it is sad, but we cannot do anything, so why bother?
The equation is simple. Be interested in fewer useless things, learn to smile a lot and be occupied with your own well being. If you start to live like this, after a time you will feel more relaxed, full with energy and only surrounded by people who are not there to draw your attention.
Happy learning for everyone 🙂